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Joined 12 years ago
Joined 12 years ago
Amazon doesn't pay top dollar for engineers, and the delta between Amazon and other companies is growing every year. (The compensation ends up being competitive when you take into account stock growth, but the new hire offers are not attractive.) And it's a very results-driven, stressful work environment. The effect of that is that people who get better offers go elsewhere, both new hires and existing employees. Those who are left either don't feel like interviewing or interviewed but didn't like their other options.
source: recently left Amazon as SDM
I am pregnant again, but I am not the same. I am not excited, I am not making plans. We waited to tell our parents until 13 weeks. Even though I'm showing, I've told the people who absolutely need to know because I don't want to talk about it. I don't want to have a baby shower because I don't want to have to look all the stuff if the baby ends up dying.
I participate in /r/Miscarriage, /r/ttcafterloss, and /r/pregnancyafterloss. People there are sad about losses that happened months, years, sometimes even 10 years ago. They - we! - are triggered by pregnant women, our original due dates (next week for me), the idea of getting pregnant again.
It's a surprise to me that we're able to call this a discovery. I feel like a Native American talking to Christopher Columbus.
Companies don't care about saving money. Even when the amount is the same, they're much more receptive to pitches that involve them making extra money.
Have you considered aggregating a little more, so that years move by faster?
In case you don't have the general idea, here it is - 1. Decide your desired wake time. Figure out how much sleep you are currently getting.
2. Go to bed late enough that there's only enough time to sleep the amount you are currently sleeping before your desired wake time. When the wake time arrives (or before, if you wake up too early), get out of bed. E.g., If you want to wake up at 7am and you are currently only getting 5h of sleep each night, you should go to bed at 2am.
3. (Be really really tired for a couple of days, oh my god)
4. Once you are finding it easy to fall asleep and stay asleep until your desired wake time, start backing up the bedtime gradually. (* this is where the app will help, can tell you when to do it and by how much)
5. [follow a bunch of other rules about when to go to bed and when to get out of bed and when to exercise, drink alcohol, and coffee]
Not defending sleep.io or your experience here, which does sound very frustrating - just hopefully some help from a fellow insomniac. CBT-i did help me, albeit temporarily. I have to re-do it periodically.