wbnns

We lived in different countries where people speak a different language, during their earlier years, though, so maybe that also contributes to it.

I don't think there's any reason not to ask, and the worst they can say is no.

If it's a no, they might have something comparable that'd be helpful that they can share.

And if they have nothing, that's also good information to help you decide. :)

Sometimes I'll prompt again to scrutinize further.

If something highly sensitive, yes, and in general, a tendency to review with more scrutiny on backend changes.

But for frontend, less and less every week.