tsewlliw
Joined 16 years ago
Joined 16 years ago
1) If everyone else seems like a jerk, maybe you're the jerk. Hard for anyone here to know. I've been the jerk before, happens to all of us. Not everyone stops being the jerk.
2) Sounds like you don't vibe with the culture around feedback, and you're early career. Maybe look around seeking a strong culture of direct feedback as a positive thing you're seeking to help you grow. Seems like a great way to spend your questions at the end of a couple interview panels.
Just as a general rule in conversation, invoking so-and-so's law or this fence isn't a productive tactic. Instead, ask the question that wisdom suggests you ask, and for this bothersome fence in particular, keep in mind that you are weighing an unidentified consequence against a proposed benefit, and at least endeavor to expend some of your own effort on suggesting what the value of the fence might be or how one might go about finding it. You may find some of that effort has been undertaken and that failure has not been shared.
with recursive cte (udo_id, prv, nxt, label) as (
select *
from udo
where udo_id = :first_item_id
union all
select u.*
from udo u
join cte
on u.prv = cte.udo_id
) select * from cte limit 100Be careful here, Google will rate limit you very severely and waiting 10s for DNS responses inside Nginx is no fun. Most cloud providers will give you a good resolver via DHCP that is much more forgiving when you accidentally abuse it.
My suggestion for the answer is that when the goal of the software project is selected carefully in the context of the surrounding ecosystem you can connect a few things and all the real magic was in picking the goal.
When instead you pick the goal and then figure out how to achieve it, who would be surprised that there is often more work involved after picking the goal?
I haven't seen folks make the change in formal role. I have seen folks take on the role, and I've taken it on myself (not my fave) with moderate success to make things happen.
Biggest advice: support the people in producing good outcomes, any processes should serve that. But the people create the outcomes, the process is a disposable tool.