michaelleland
Joined 16 years ago
Joined 16 years ago
My wife has also chosen to be a homemaker, and I watch in awe at how much she gets done. She creates a space where the "slack" you mention can happen--that is where we can afford to be generous with our time. I don't see it as a financial income thing, but more of a lifestyle thing (arguably the same thing).
We've lived in both Sweden and in America, and we've modeled our family life by looking at the older families in both cultures that seem to be thriving--and building in this slack, building in someone who can simply _care_ for the others and be cared for in return has been amazing.
The American attitude is: the law is there to support the authorities.
Interestingly, nearly every sentence begins with "we believe," a fundamentally religious statement.
What did/does therapy look like for you?
Looking at the last 10 years, I've build 10s of routines to compensate without knowing why.
Good luck getting medication! Hopefully it helps you.
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