jennoo

Yes, lately I have noticed that always feels a bit cumbersome working with it. Where those built-in DBMS SQL or NoSQL?

Looks interesting, thank you. Have you used it yourself? If so how do you deal with queries like: 'my' private messages from a single user.

I also try to avoid ORM's but ditching them makes mapping to struct/objects cumbersome. How you deal with mapping joins in Go and node.js?

Does anyone recommend a good alternative which embraces the open source mentality so I am allowed to permanently store the data.

Yes you are right, please have look. I have updated the question text.