andersthue
Joined 13 years ago
Karma
308
Submissions
289
Member since
Oct 19
Recent submissions
Comment · 3 years ago
What is your red flag(s) for entering overdrive?
Could you notice it/them and stop yourself?
Would that solve the issue?
Comment · 3 years ago
Loved this quote from the book
“There is a contradiction here: If the prize for winning finite play is life, then the players are not properly alive. They are competing for life. Life, then, is not play, but the outcome of play. Finite players play to live; they do not live their playing. Life is therefore deserved, bestowed, possessed, won. It is not lived.” that was posted in this blog post recently https://www.youngmoney.co/p/infinite-games
For me the difference in what game you choose to play is a result of your mindset - are you seeing people you play with in life, or do you se objects/ obstacles that you have to win over.
That difference makes a huge difference in your behaviour, a person is treated with respect and love - an object is pushed, beaten, removed.
So, i ask myself, how would I like to treated, like a person or an object?
Comment · 3 years ago
It brings me nothing but good experiences already, and I for sure will smile at the end of my days here on earth knowing I at least for some time had a positive impact on others.
Comment · 3 years ago
Being arrogant for 47~ish years, did nothing good for me.
Now I work hard on being friendly, curious and kind towards others.
Comment · 4 years ago
“The anatomy of peace”, by the Arbinger institute.
It has helped me navigate conflicts better and I have become more succesful through better collaborations and stronger relationships.
Comment · 4 years ago
For 12 years my windows watermarking software has been making >500$ a month (lately just barely)
Comment · 4 years ago
Happy new year!
My goal for the next year is to do no mindless SoMe consumption, and instead create and market what i build, or relax or take a nap or whatever is the right thing to do, which is never instafacetok for 2 hours.
Comment · 5 years ago
Working on a tree planting, earth saving, bio link tool :), have a few signups but need to rewrite the edit flow and a thousand other things on my todo.
Frontpage https://maelt.co
Profile page https://maelt.co/anda
Comment · 5 years ago
I needed it myself, and the other pieces of sw did not work proper, then spent 3 years of spending a few hours every evening promoting it, posting it to forums, etc. (And a little time prorgramming, but promoting it took waaay more time)
Comment · 6 years ago
It was more work 5 years ago, doing 5-6-7k$
These days it is a few minutes a few times a week, doing support.
Comment · 6 years ago
I made a watermarking software 10 years ago, still makes 1000$ every month, with almost zero work.
:)
Comment · 6 years ago
Growth mindset is there is always enough.
Scarcity is there is never enough.
Both is a mind-set.
So to change, you need to change your mindset.
The best way to do that, has for me been through the Arbinger mindset change tools, start with their books, i can recommend “The outward mindset” and take it from there.
Comment · 6 years ago
That our responses and our negative relational feelings are based on out own choice - Nobody makes me feel angry, victimized, as a failure - it is always my choice to feel those feelings.
It is not always i am able to choose not to feel it, but i always know i am feeling it because of my own choosing.
anders (at) andersthue.dk