On the desktop Intel has better memory controllers last time I looked, but it’s not that big a difference. Something in your setup is just broken. Failures will happen with any brand, so I wouldn’t chalk it up to AMD vs Intel… figure out where your problem is and get the faulty part replaced if you can.
I feel you though, regardless of the cause, that is an extremely frustrating place to be.
I feel you though, regardless of the cause, that is an extremely frustrating place to be.