> What sort of subject characterizes a style of society in which everyone is theoretically as ready to help you as the question « May I help you ? » implies ? It’s the question your seat-mate immediately asks you when you take a plane – an American plane, that is, with an American seat-mate. The last time I flew from Paris to New-York, looking very tired for personal reasons, my seat-mate, like a mother bird, literally put food into my mouth throughout the trip. He took bits of meat from his own plate and slipped them between my lips ! What is the nature of this subject, then, which is based on this first principle, and which, on the other hand, makes it impossible to get service ? Such then is my question, and I believe, as regards my story, that it is here, on the level of this gap – which does not fit into intra or inter or extrasubjectivity – that the question of the subject must be posed
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