LOL.
Seems like the OP is confused and misreading normal macOS/iOS behavior as a conspiracy.
Interface stats are cumulative since boot (eg: not real-time), mDNSResponder traffic includes all historical Bonjour activity. utun tunnels are standard iCloud/VPN infrastructure. Shannon-Hartley math proves WiFi can move data, not that anything covert is happening.
Interface stats are cumulative since boot (eg: not real-time), mDNSResponder traffic includes all historical Bonjour activity. utun tunnels are standard iCloud/VPN infrastructure. Shannon-Hartley math proves WiFi can move data, not that anything covert is happening.