It's common for Asian people, especially Asian men, to work like hell for their parents and children, and not really think about what other life choices they have.
That's caused by social values and expectations – people think you are disrespectful to your parents if you don't provide them and carry on the family name.
That happened to my dad too. He worked really hard for his family, but as his child, it is crystal clear to me that he doesn't enjoy childcare.
The situation is improving as the new generation puts more focus on their own life. But it's still a long way to go.
That's caused by social values and expectations – people think you are disrespectful to your parents if you don't provide them and carry on the family name.
That happened to my dad too. He worked really hard for his family, but as his child, it is crystal clear to me that he doesn't enjoy childcare.
The situation is improving as the new generation puts more focus on their own life. But it's still a long way to go.