If you've already decided on cremation, look for a local Cremation Society. The term you're looking for is "simple cremation" where the deceased is cremated and the ashes returned to you. No ceremonies, no viewing, minimal decisions, minimal expense. Some funeral homes offer this also, they aren't the only option.
The celebration of life at a later date can then be organized when all involved are feeling up to it.
The celebration of life at a later date can then be organized when all involved are feeling up to it.