"Anger treats its target as someone capable of recognizing that she has done wrong... "
This is true in some cases, but not all. Had a girlfriend once who used anger to get what she wanted. It was like cash to her - a simple means to an end.
When I pushed back it spiraled into abuse. She became ever more hurtful instead of being conciliatory tory. Blew my mind.
I'm firmly in the camp that seeks to eliminate all anger from my life, and avoid it in others. Like the plague.
"Anger treats its target as someone capable of recognizing that she has done wrong... "
This is true in some cases, but not all. Had a girlfriend once who used anger to get what she wanted. It was like cash to her - a simple means to an end.
When I pushed back it spiraled into abuse. She became ever more hurtful instead of being conciliatory tory. Blew my mind.
I'm firmly in the camp that seeks to eliminate all anger from my life, and avoid it in others. Like the plague.