Ask HN: Google Play Music Alternative?

What are good alternatives to Google Play Music?

While YouTube Music is more or less ok as a replacement, I don't like the dark-patterns they're using to try and lure/confuse you into a subscription for YouTube rather than just listening to your music like you used to be able to.

What good alternatives exist that:

- let me upload my own music collection

- stream from a browser & a native android app

- ideally do not have a subscription

- Optional: legitimate music purchases

I don't mind self-hosting if it comes to that?

Thanks!