Comment by relo_worries

That's actually one of her big concerns. We were planning on moving in, but still haven't lived together. Now I'm asking her to quit her job and move across the country, without a job, to live with me. So I understand where she is coming from.

It's a tough spot indeed. I've got some time to think it over or sell her on it. Thanks for replying - this is a super tough spot for me and I appreciate your input