The specific part of your comment, which is true, is, yes, I am essentially warning that you can do your absolute best to raise a child and put their interests (as you see it) ahead of your own, and they still may end up hating you for it.
I'm not, however, going to comment on any other part of your response. I just don't want to get into it.
I'm not, however, going to comment on any other part of your response. I just don't want to get into it.