tylerjl
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It is absolutely possible to host, use, and achieve decent deliverability with your own server. It takes work and is a different beast than running a webserver, but that frontier is not dead (yet).
At the same time: it is an ABSOLUTELY TERRIBLE IDEA to suggest that folks operate an email server out of residential IP through your ISP. The spam prevention ecosystem is so draconian now that email traffic flowing out of address ranges belonging to residential owners is yeeted into the sun. If you've operated email infrastructure at decently large scales, you know that SPF/DKIM/DMARC are just one part of how spam is identified, and mixing in the source of email traffic into the detection heuristics is a significant part of that identification process. Achieving decent delivery can often involve "warming up" an IP over time to establish its reputation, and consumer address ranges are a hodge-podge of activity that incur very little trust about what they're doing.
I agree with some commenters that exhort the exercise of self-hosting email to prevent the venerable protocol becoming a homogeneous GMail and Outlook-only world, but there are reliable ways to do this: using a VPS, relying on a company for the sending/SMTP part, or something similar. But footguns abound, and disgorging SMTP packets from your LAN edge is one of them.
Another commenter questioned what size bucket Elastic falls into these days; in April 2025 their SEC filing [2] cited about 3,500 employees. So not a startup any more but definitely not fully-fledged FAANG-sized.
(not sure whether it even applies here; but full disclosure, I left Elastic in 2022.)
[1]: https://www.elastic.co/blog/ceo-ash-kulkarni-email-to-elasti... [2]: https://www.sec.gov/Archives/edgar/data/1707753/000170775325...
(Aside: I wrote this article early last month but it caught on only just recently. For better or worse, touching a third rail topic like systemd seems like a sure-fire way to elicit strong and numerous reactions both positive and negative.)
Repurposing an old tower would offer you enough compute to self-host services back in the day, but now an Intel NUC has plenty of resources in a very small footprint and branching out into the Raspberry Pi-adjacent family of hardware also offers even smaller power draw on aarch64 SBCs.
One experiment in my own lab has been to deploy glusterfs across a fleet of ODroid HC4 devices to operate a distributed storage network. The devices sip small amounts of power, are easy to expand, and last week a disk died completely but I swapped the hardware out while never losing access to the data thanks to separate networked peers staying online while the downed host got new hardware.
Relying on container deployments rather than fat VMs also helps to compress resource requirements when operating lots of self-hosted services. I've got about ~20 nomad-operated services spread across various small, cheap aarch64 hosts that can go down without worrying about it because nomad will just pick a new one.
opentelemetry-collector, promtail, and so on have native plugins for it, which makes aggregation easier to setup
Most tools have "tail this plaintext file" as well, but if it's all flowing to journald, setting up log collection ends up being that much simpler
As a minor observation, I'm pretty (pleasantly) surprised that the project provides a NixOS package for the application. As somebody who tends to flit between Arch, Fedora, and NixOS, seeing packages for NixOS before Fedora availability is a very surprising signal in terms of Linux distribution popularity.
The posts that made it to the top of HN (that I can recall at this moment)
35 Million Hot Dogs: Benchmarking Caddy vs. Nginx (https://blog.tjll.net/reverse-proxy-hot-dog-eating-contest-c...)
SSH Kung Fu (https://blog.tjll.net/ssh-kung-fu/)
Building My Ideal Router for $50 (https://blog.tjll.net/building-my-perfect-router/)
I've been using nix/nixos a lot lately and will probably end up publishing more in that general area of interest. That and my excessively-overengineered homelab.
I wonder how much (if any) of this landing page was GPT generated.
```ruby
puts "Hi"
```
You may be used to native syntax highlighting take over, but while you're in polymode, moving the cursor into the Ruby portion of the code actually activates Ruby-mode - any code checking (with something like flymake) works as expected, any major-mode specific actions that reformat code like M-q or == (while evil is active) will do what you expect, and polymode isn't just limited to fenced markdown.
Like the linked article demonstrates, polymode is super flexible. I myself wrote my own, small polymode that watches for comments like /* python */ that precede literal string blocks (which look like ''print("Hi")'' and are usually multi-line) in nix code to transform regions into their native modes (it doesn't need to just be python) and it's really great.
You can see an animated description of this here: https://twitter.com/leothrix/status/1597327756102336512
edit: my fenced block example was weird
I'll say right off the bat that I don't see any red flags with your proposed plan. The following bullet points are primarily meant to offer some additional options or mental nudges to help you brainstorm - like I said, there's nothing abjectly wrong with your architecture, so this list may just offer more ideas:
- I've self-hosted a few email servers (and still do) and I think punting on that (or just doing the backup plan) is probably the right approach - you can DIY it today, but it's a part-time job. If you ever do decide to take ownership of your email, bringing your own domain to Fastmail or Proton Mail has also worked well for me. Today I host one domain on Linode and one on Ramnode. As with most things email, there are tons of nuances with doing it yourself - I had to get both my email servers' public addresses placed on an allowlist with their respective providers.
- I self-host most of my services on my own hardware in my homelab. I eschew the big, expensive, loud, power-hungry hardware in favor of smaller, cheaper, and swappable hardware, and the strategy has worked out really well. I primarily use ODroid hardware (they offer both ARM and x86-64 hardware). You mentioned a floating/non-public address as a constraint, so you could still do this with tailscale/headscale/something similar and gain the benefit of cloaking your services inside a private network (and using some public/free cloud instance as a low-power VPN endpoint). I don't think DigitalOcean/Linode are bad choices, but I very much like owning the hardware layer as well.
- I've been self-hosting before Nextcloud existed and used its progenitor (ownCloud) and developed a harsh distate for the huge, sprawling complexity of the system (it was hungry for resources, broke on upgrades constantly, etc.). That story may be better now, but I've sinced move on to hosting very targeted, smaller services. For example, instead of Nextcloud's file syncing, I run syncthing everywhere, and instead of Nextcloud's calendaring, I run radicale. Nextcloud will probably be fine, but I've been happier with running a smaller collection of services that do one thing well (syncthing in particular is an exceptional piece of software)
I could really ramble on but I'll just include a list of the stuff I host if you have any questions about it. I blog[1] about some of these, too: Transmission, Radarr, Sonarr, Jackett, Vaultwarden, espial, glusterfs, kodi, photoprism, atuin, Jellyfin, Vault, tiny tiny rss, calibre, homeassistant, mpd, apache zeppelin, and minio. Outside my lab hardware I run a few instances of nixos-simple-mailserver, mastodon, and goatcounter (used to run plausible). I also run a remove ZFS server that I mirror snapshots to as my remote backup solution.
That's correct, although as you mention later, it's limited to NixOS. It's an unfortunate constraint given how tremendously powerful it is, but the limitation makes sense. nixos-generators is literally a nix function that accepts a NixOS configuration and operates on the nix value in order to construct the VM image, so it wouldn't work quite the same without nix at the core.
Because nix "knows" about the total definition of the system, nixos-generators can do wonderful things like construct an AMI image or VMWare image without talking to any hypervisor APIs or cloud APIs at all - it knows how to construct the system from the "ground up" and you just end up with a big disk image file after the appropriate `nix build ...` command, no AWS keys or running Proxmox API required.
It's a tradeoff, to be sure. But if the use case fits - which for us, it does quite well - you can be outrageously productive. Adding an entirely new image format takes as long as typing a new line in `flake.nix`, and I leverage a common NixOS module between all the image types to invoke a quick and easy local qemu VM when I'd like to experiment locally.
It's become hard to imagine what managing a "normal" system would be like with the features I get by baking it all into a NixOS configuration.
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