novok
Joined 7 years ago
Joined 7 years ago
It's not an accusation, but a mirror to help them potentially realize something, so they don't suffer so much through life so. When you realize what is happening, it helps release a lot of suffering in a person's life. The sour grapes is not helpful, NT social instincts are not going away and it's better to understand and work with the world than to be upset that rain happens sometimes and it just should never exist!
NT social instincts does not mean the person is super effective socially and everything else, but it's a very useful tool if they decide to develop their social skills.
> adding layers of detail and nuance rather than interrogating the one or two assumptions they make at the start
This is a fundamentally neurotypical assumption. NDs have a hard time understanding the shared context of their audience, so they splay out all the detail to compensate. Earlier in their lives they tried 'just interrogating the one or two assumptions' but because they are not able to infer context nobody understands them because they are off the mark. They also enjoy diving into a huge amount of detail and exploring every nook and cranny to potentially find something new.
This is usually how you get hostile government organizations & staff to do what you want, you need to hit them in the career and figure out how to do so quickly.
[0] batshittery = where they are doing things like ignoring basic logic / reality and other obviously against the law things
This is also, as you know, why france loves it's strikes & protests because the citizenry feel like they have nothing else.
Lets say these are paper records, behind a locked door, with a security guard that they check id for it. If someone then breaks in at night time, cuts the cameras and knocks out the security guard and steals a filing cabinet, should that university then be fined 10% of revenue, which could mean the entire university shuts down because most businesses cannot survive that? We have to remember who is the original criminal here.
The game I'm speaking about is the social game we all play day to day.