lucifargundam

Am I the only one here who instantly redirected mentally to "Conker's Bad Fur Day" ?

I'll concede with it being a matter of preference. For me, I used Debian for everything. I even use it to play VR games on Steam.

My wife and I verbally argue nearly daily about many things. But we usually work things out over time. Fast forward much time later-(days, months, etc) such topics 90% of the time are no longer important enough for either of us to really care about talking about them. We're happy _enough_ , what usually impacts us as a couple is the frustrations we individually feel with external factors- not each other. Think of two fish stuck in a bowl they outgrew- any hostilities are not particularly with each other, but the result of their environment. The usual consensus between us is usually summed up to "yeah, this moment is hard for us- but we've been through worse and we'll keep working hard to get to the next stage in life".

That being said, we both have our own issues from before we met each other- but we actively want to better ourselves and are trying to overcome our own flaws while accepting the each other as they are. Communication is hard, conflicting thoughts and emotions between cohabitants is hard, but if it were too easy- there might occur a paranoia of it being fake. The ability to resolve conflict and work together as a team is what will ultimately determine the strength and duration of a relationship. That's not something that's easily learned or often taught... and I would not depend on books alone for such life lessons.

And its because of situations like this, that I push to multiple foundries at the same time. Consolidation of resources is makes it only as secure as your control of maintaining them.

I just wanted to say I first heard of Fly.io from "The Changelog" podcast

Implying a geographic coincidence

Gaslight everyone you know into believing you're important, and act like you solve everyone's problems each time something happens- without actually doing anything.

Then proceed to post about all your "honest", "hard" work on social media.

Yes

I often have a hard time communicating. This is a hurdle I deal with on a daily basis and makes for stressful encounters with others.

My train of thought often branches when asked a general question on a particularly large topic::::

-My ability to communicate during such conversations may come out very rushed because of the amount of material to cover such a topic. -My choice of words may vary depending on a particular subsection of that topic. -I may feel unsure or frustrated with myself in having to double-back or rethink my choice of words on the fly.

What would help us both would be a very specific question to a very narrow topic. That would allow me to be relatively brief while providing full meaningful context to the question at hand.

On a personal note, it doesn't help that I am often sleep-deprived and drink too much coffee just to keep a resemblance of normal functionality. Pre-existing health conditions may affect mental state and ability to communicate with others.

Why did you leave?

and the site is down "Error code: SSL_ERROR_RX_RECORD_TOO_LONG"

I wasn't even aware this was a thing...

On the flipside, I've applied for plenty of jobs- only to be told I lack necessary skills for the positions.

My resume has been edited to fit each job.