>When I lack immediate feedback, I begin to doubt myself/my abilities.
He believes being conditioned by social media led him to that point, more specifically immediate-satisfaction instant-result culture.
That is not entirely true in my experience. Feedback is supposed to determine strategy, not your self worth as a person. He has been programmed, by the instant result culture or whatever, into emotionally charged reactions, not an objective response.
I have been working out and I hit a plateau, I should stop this is fruitless > I hit a plateau, I need to try a new workout routine. Not “I will workout for 3 years until I make any judgement.”
I have been blogging for months and nobody cares, I should stop > I have been blogging for months without any results, my current course of action needs adjustment. Not “I will blog for 3 years regardless.”
Reacting - Old habits/conditioning make you react to a situation
Responding - Taking in the situation and moving forward with calculated action.
The 3 year rule replaces his current reaction with another one, when he should be working on responding to situations instead. It takes you further, but will not take you further than if you were to correct that faulty outlook altogether.
