jbmny
Joined 5 years ago
Joined 5 years ago
It reminded me of my own habit of logging my pour-over coffee brews. For months I saved every variable about every cup, imagining that one day I'd analyze that data and arrive at the perfect recipe.
I never once looked at the data. Eventually I realized that I'd rather learn by just paying close attention to this cup, and using it to change my approach for the next cup.
It feels like a more human, living knowledge.
Looking back, maybe my dad nudged him to change the subject so that I wouldn't spend the next month begging for a subscription.
I know that my "principled" refusal to drink in my younger years made socializing a lot harder and just generally put a barrier between myself and my peers. Of course, a stronger person could overcome those challenges without alcohol, but that seems like a Herculean task for someone who's already shy and lacking self-esteem.
I guess I just don't see it as black and white.
An extreme example, I know, but I can't help but think of the movie Audition.
Needless to say, it was well worth the price.
I just found that dehumanizing. Lol