bradstewart
Joined 11 years ago
Joined 11 years ago
The "it's not ... it's" phrasing though definitely stands out as a bit odd when repeated.
Interestingly (or maybe not?), the things that rise to this level have a much higher activation threshold the older I get.
This is pretty much the key in my experience.
To add a finer point: good faith listening is validating. Validating doesn't mean telling them it's ok, or giving in, doing what they want, etc.
It's the difference between "yes I understand you're feeling A, B, C, but we're doing it anyway because X" and "I don't care, stop it, be quiet and do it".
It's not replacing dumpster-diving, nor would I consider myself to be part of dumpster-diving subculture. I don't talk about it to my friends. It's just cheap food.
A ~year later, anecdotal evidence: it works.
But the fact is, ARIMA models work. So people keep using them. And you can see what they're doing, and understand why, and how to tune them.
No video games, no PC tinkering and overlocking, no EE degree.