RemingtonLak
Joined 7 years ago
Joined 7 years ago
1. dumb as possible, no OEM OS like webos/roku etc. use ext. smart box
2. HDMI w CEC to be controllable w/ ext receiver
3. LCD/OLED have burn-in like your phone. just fyi. Particularly OLED.
4. want local dimming
5. want HDR's as many as it supports
6. you want class A screens likes of which manuf are; sharp, sony etc.. but now includes lowend like Vizio
7. look at reviews for screen edge bleeding.. I hate that.
IMHO every brand at every model level has diff screen/tech so one can't definitively say one brand is better. Your budget should dictate what you end up buying. I think what one sees is subjective. Only reviews showing things like contrast levels, bleeding and color reproduction are you only objective parameters to steer you.
[EDIT] forgot to mention that if you like so many others use ext. box to stream. Remember that all your TV settings for color, Hz etc can be over written by your ext box. So the quality of your ext. streamer will also dictate the quality of your videos.
How many times have you gone to your doc and get asked a basic "when did this start?" question and/or what were you doing 2 mons when it started.
There is a evolution in health care monitoring going on which can lead to incredible insights into your health both mental and physical, but then so does the world where it may judge you based on what you have now that you can't keep anything a secret.
What you and I area looking for in essence is a life coach. I'm not one but fatherless all my life, it seems having someone to bounce ideas and finding purpose may help. Not necessarily that i have an answer for either of us but having no one to talk to doesn't help. Wife is not someone whom this topic is either ideal or would go too well.
Again, I'm not selling you anything but to tell you I feel the same. Just looking for a chat bud who is maybe willing to share each other's burden but also maybe the sounding board will shed some light in the end of the tunnel.
In my 40's w a 2yr toddler and wife, I'm about to be jobless after my contract ends. thank god! but not thankful not knowing what to do next....
https://blog.cloudflare.com/introducing-1-1-1-1-for-families...
Just found out there is a huge thread on HN:https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22748141
Better if you get him a middle of the road Chromebook.
A fulltime father of a 2yr old. Few bullet points on what I wish I had from the beginning.
1. <5mons tons of skin to skin, lotsa of low calming talk to your baby, soothing music w/o words like works from Claude Debussy, smile/laugh at every chance.
2. <9mons while baby on their back, move their legs like army crawling, lotsa of stomach time.
3. >10mons 2 individuals who seem to contradict, but same messages: (just a few quick potent sound bites)
- Jordan Peterson : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5cTyxJWZC7k
- *Gabor Mate\ : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcPPDbvGr7s, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9B5mYfBPlY
4. Your child will mimic your every move, talk, and reactions. They basically are your mini me. When they say, the are reflections of you they aren't kidding. The few times I talked aspirated or over excited happy or angry, I witnessed my child re-enacting it later including the few words he remembers. Kinda scary. So point #4: you need to change who you are completely. If you want to raise a calm, gentle, compassionate, humble, caring, empathetic child. You need to show that in every thing you do. If your child acts out or "misbehaves" or something you don't approve of. It's not them, it's you they are reflecting. Again, you need to show not tell. At this age and reasoning level, they have ZERO comprehension of your words, only your tone and body language.5. Join a dad's group. Even if you don't receive "support" or advice, just by listening to others who will have gone through the same you have helps.
6. Although your child nor mine isn't quite that age yet, Super Nanny shows on youtube are very helpful.
7. They need to be exposed to many diff kinds of people (race, gender etc.) But biggest difference is exposing them to other children their size and age.
8. Mom to join a Mom's group. That's a must for her. She needs an outlet and support only other mothers can give. Not her mothers or mother in-law. That's too close for comfort.
9. Mother's groups vastly by them donating outgrown toys/clothes. We are midincome like yourselves but this donation and also paying it forward is a social thing not necessarily although does help a financial thing.
My child can't tell me what they feel or think because they don't have the words....yet. So they get unresponsive, "disrespectful", misbehaves etc.. It isn't because they want to, its because they don't yet know how to tell you how they feel or think. It's frustration at it's fullest. They can't yet control their emotions either so it seems almost bipolar; mad/happy.
By the age or 7+ they are their own person and if you want them to be a good person, you must show NOT tell them how to now.
I also learned this when I volunteered to be a Big Brother to 3 boys who have now grown. they were 5,6,8. And because they weren't my kids to "discipline." I had to use what I know now by Gabor Mate' way of compassionate talking and acting. I had to "show" them howto not give them pointless endless lectures.
Bottomline, one thing you will need to be are: thick skinned bc you will need to do this in public too, and have patience as if you're literally watching paint dry.
[EDIT] Didn't put down anything pre-baby. Here are some thoughts: 1. you need a play area for the child that is so baby-proofed that it's basically a padded cell. Having a gate to corral them is a must unless you have plenty of rooms and can dedicate an entire room for them.
2. you need to support your wife who pushed out a bowling out of her you know what. Unless you can or did too, you need to baby her as much as you baby you new child. This means endless washing dishes, clothes, entire house. No I'm too tired BS. You have no choice of the matter unless, you're wealthy enough to afford maids. You will be tired... period. Your life as you know it will no longer exist.. period. You will have to change yourself in so many ways, you may not recognize yourself in the end. However, what you becomes is; more compassionate, sensitive, empathetic, patient, caring.
3. babies <6mons loves large black/white images. They can only see shadows of light and dark so get books to show them.
4. Bath times are precious. I did and still do all of the bathing. At my child's age of 2, although nursary rhymes are good, at bath time, I play the Supremes, chantels and at play time I play a lot of Baroque.
5. Take as *many* pictures and video as you can!! Since it's digital, no cost! However, you need to housekeep all that pic/video regularly as it will get out of hand.
6. Apps we use that are a must:
a) Baby Tracker https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.nighp.babytracker_android&hl=en&gl=US
b) Google Keep (shared with spouse) for the following:
1. Milestone : keeping track of any differences and milestone achieving
2. Needs like food/clothing/toys
c) Wonder Weeks : https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.twisevictory.apps&hl=en_US&gl=US
7. Dedicated baby monitor and a security cam where you can record and of course view from outside house.8. Sound machine is a must.
9. Baby needs to be swaddled and temps always around 68-71 sleeping.
I have to stop here.. omg. So much info and I feel I've given only 10% of what I've learned.
Your life as you know will change...period. And you'll have to learn what you may have pushed out like nutrition, psychology for both parents and child.
Learn to LOVE washing milk bottles.
Actually it's much like the old days of road trips where your trip isn't just the destination but the route to the your destination can be fun too.
PS> you can get onto Tesla's site and plan your trip. you can see for yourself depending on the Tesla model where you'll need to divert to charge if even needing to divert. Most Superchargers are along most major thoroughfares including some destination like SF Zoo has SC too. Here's the link: https://www.tesla.com/trips Here's a route from SF to LA based on my Model 3
https://www.tesla.com/trips#/?v=M3_2020_StandardRangePlus&o=...
Also go on reddit, HN commenters don't vent here, but you can find plenty of venting on reddit. You will no doubt find problems to resolve and if that isn't enough. There is even a sub for startup app ideas where people for the most part not capable of developing it themselves come there to "vent" why isn't there an app that does ...... ?
There was one partnership that did work. Primarily I suspect due to lack of "Ivy league" connections: Steve Jobs/Woz. Two very naïve but smart people lacking the not yet tainted by the ivy leaguers created an empire built on good foundation. Albeit Jobs could have been nicer ;) I worked in his environment and he was scary as you see him on shows dramatized or not. Met him in hallways/cafe.. he never ever smiled but did worship him. He knew what to steal, how to exploit then productize to make people happy. Honestly, 90% of the products he facilitated would never have seen the light of day. Case and point: Xerox's mouse and desktop.
I think your situation is ALL of our situation. We are ALL kickass eng but no connections, no non-tech ie sales/marketing, no industry specific insight and the lack of key to your success: inside connections.
Startups need VC's not for money but for the connections. VC helps the startups get not only in touch with people who makes decisions for the company but moreover have the ability to convince/convey/"pressure" them to at least give you a try. Another reason for VC's; make other startups use your product to launch theirs. Case and point: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marc_Andreessen He epitomizes that once you have that inside connection, you can make a 1+1 tool for a million dollars and the entire industry will jump on board and pay whatever it takes. It's amazing how people with no clue can quickly build up a company to add 1+1 and turn it into a billion dollar company and you can't even though yours for fraction of the price can do 1+2.
I've been in Silicon Valley and at various FAANG/M to now have a clue to how things work.
My observations:
1. Best products never gets greenlighted....never. Mind boggling.... but true. Decision makers are almost always a non-tech.
2. Company IT's are always looking for sweet deals, kickbacks, no brain implementation/integration and ungodly support
3. Company IT's 90% of work almost always comes from integrating various mismatched platforms
4. enduser's pain is almost never considered. decision process is almost always based on a single usecase for high level's myopic viewpoints.
All above reasons why internals in enterprises absolutely sucks. ABSOLUTELY. You would be blown over by how backwards antique sw is being used by the likes of Apple, Amazon, Cisco, Microsoft and most fortune 500 runs inside because I've worked for most of the top 10 techs. and the worst piece of crap sw: SAP. Every company has this painpoint because it/they integrate all of other barely working junk platforms. So enterprises are basically crippled by an idiot who built their initial foundation. Probably because they lacked the knowledge, took the lowest barrier to entry and big tech junk constantly in their faces and no limit to funds. This is where the big boys like SAP work their evil to get you onto their legacy platform which makes you stuck forever. Once on it, the changes you have to make to your internals are resource impossible. I remember a little while back when I went to HR in a top 10 tech. The sw a HR person was using launched a bunch of DOS window to do some execution. It was unreal.
This brings along another enterprise unicorn: Atlassian. I've been using it for years and there is a reason why they are able to create an eco around their sw.. mainly because their sw platform is so lacking. The most popular extension just to make confluence workable was a tiny little plugin a person was making millions from because confluence simply lacked some key fundamental func. So you have to wonder, how in the world did they get their foot in the door? I (prgm mgr) became a demigod of sorts after I was able to do "magical" basic func using their REST API.
Bottomline, if you're looking to get into enterprise and you have no connections, and no industry standing (your partners in crime and/or an industry leader in a specific field) you will never break in... never. This is why many startups are emphasizing by saying s/he worked at FAANG which for whatever reason makes them god in their field and should be taken seriously regardless of their position.
If you're trying to do cold calling, best to do is at tradeshows which IT people love going to. They get treated like royalties and get "kickbacks."
However now with the advent of social media, if you can make a splash with some specific viral video that spotlights your product. You could get noticed and get your foot in the door.
Another demo you can hit if you're B2B are SMB's. They usually lack the big boy's connections and are willing to take a risk in reducing cost, overhead, personnel and infra costs.
Finally, if you're B2C product, then your best and only bet is social media engagement with an influencer.
I'm sorry for you to think you'll get notice from enterprise procurement here in HN. Personally i don't think it will happen. I think most of us are either bored dev's, retired or bored non-influencers. Those people you so desperately want attention from, treats their work strictly 8-5 and do cocktail parties with visibility to sell themselves. Sorry, they are not scouring the web for best solutions. They are looking for best solutions for themselves which does not mean best for company. Think if you're trying to get T rump's attention, you have a choice: cheap fast food now with diet coke or showcase best in class enterprise sw that will save money, time and people's lives? Which do you think he will pay attention to?
However, having said that, you can make it into the fray by yes, focusing on niche. Case Study: Stripe. They focused on reducing painpoints for webdev's. Once they got traction with an army of webdev's. That got the VC's attention, VC's joined in giving Stripe connections to decision makers and rest is history. If you feel you got what people who build things need to reduce their cost/pain expeditiously. Then you need to be in that dev's viewpoint; Stackoverflow, Medium articles and all other dev landing zones; DZone etc.
Good luck.
I suspect like most, your teams are overseas ie Romania/Spain etc. Lots good talent, focused so hinders my willingness to try something that isn't out there yet only to be overrun by talents who can crank it out in a day.
Like all indies, I do not have team/business currently to administrate/PR this to public mind's eye. Not to mention that in itself will be more time consuming than coding it.
Let me chew on this and see if there may be a small prj. How are you on pwa/vue? and unity?
Can you tell me more about your team? members, skillsets, knowledge expertise?
hum.. just tried loading your sites and it crashed Brave....never seen anything crash any of my browsers ;)
What is your stance on collaboration based on equity? Some I may pay others, thinking of equity instead. What are your thoughts?
Only thing holding me back is app/idea stealth and competition. What would hold your group back from implementing same and deploy in countries I can't touch? Of course, inevitable if it's worth while, copycats everywhere. So my main concern is stealth and competition since easier for you to move on it.
What's the clause / non-compete agreement?
What's the ballpark $ a complete E2E from provided wireframe? I also provide the UX/UI/graphics etc. Let's say Instagram equal. as PWA/Vuejs w some sort of auth/db? Another MVP may be Unity3D again, provide all assets. Both to live on say.. GCE vm.
I would be cautious since they are doing nothing but feeding you what they feel are "essential" gut bacterias.
the danger is, there has to be a balance. You can have an overgrowth that you may not be able to reverse.
Again, I think this article exemplifies what we don't yet know so, a company providing a ready made solution seems a little much?
The best thing you can do for your gut isn't yet practical which is to find a bio/genetic/ethnic compatible person and do an FMT and do the rebalancing this company is promising for real. yeah. a bit futuristic but have been done and proven to work if you need helping an aliment such as Crohn's.
From all that gather, the cause and effect like one bacteria's waste is another's feed to yet another etc.. I do know yes, we found certain vitamins are made in the gut including many hormones like why is 90% of Serotonin made in colon but bulk of it is used in the brain? It has been found that there are neurons in our gut thus the "2nd brain" Hypothesis.
Not going into specifics, I can tell you without a doubt my fasting has made a huge impact to my health although I'm not doing it long enough >5 days nor often enough. Further that by eating garbage high carb/sugar when back to "normal."
It's been speculated and I believe it's for real that if everyone fasts at least one full day a week and do IM 16:8 the rest. Most of the aliments people are currently dealing with will be almost gone.
I clearly feel going into ketosis after a full day of fasting.
I fast 3-5 days once a qtr and every week I fast Mondays.
If I had the money and motivation. I would start a startup that does the following: At your puberty, you bank/cryofreeze your blood and when you are the pinnacle of your gut/body health in your 20's cryofreeze your stool. Then in your 50-60's, reimplant your stool and your blood. We lose so much along the way, by the time we're in our later age, we need to reconstitute it to reinvigorate your gut and possibly reverse aliments. I truly believe this business model could work.
My interests: -Home Automation/Security -Child cognitive development -Human Microbiome -Psychology -Private Social Networking (Families) -Mindfulness