CowOfKrakatoa

Could you share which models do you aim for?

Do you mind expanding on this method? If it have articles you could share I would love to learn more about this.

How does LISTEN/NOTIFY compare to using select for update skip locked? I thought listen/notify can lose queue items when the process crashes? Is that true? Do you need to code for those cases in some manner?

Why did you move?

Why? Did you try both and what did you think?

Haven't read the comments, but I have something to contribute. I am married and a parent of a 1.5-year-old child. Employed at a full-time job, working out is something I consider mandatory. Adding all this together, plus household chores, it leaves little time for personal projects or just chilling out by myself. I used to stay up late to get some alone time, but as the article describes, it is not sustainable, especially for parents.

I had a project I wanted to work on, but it was difficult to focus at night after everything else was taken care of. So I flipped it. I started waking up early. I aim for 5 am; recently, it's been more like 6 am, but I've been thinking of trying out 4 am. I've never been a morning person, but you do get used to it after a few weeks. Now, I use the fresh morning energy to work on my side project, and from the moment my daughter wakes up, I start with all the responsibilities. I work out in the evening, and I don't dread going to sleep early because I wake up to my time. So, the earlier I get to bed, the more "me" time I get.