Zed is abrasive, and I don't think I'm a particularly defensive or indirect person. I don't think the issue is that he's willing to be direct with people, it's that he's too quick to tell people to go fuck themselves. A lot of communication issues are misunderstandings and in my experience Zed would much rather tell you to go fuck yourself than listen and figure out what the misunderstanding is. The very best teachers and communicators I know don't hesitate to tell you when they disagree but would almost never literally tell you to go fuck yourself, they find a more polite route.
That said, Zed seems like a good guy at heart, I have seen him offer help to people out of nowhere both here on HN and on Twitter. Not to mention making most (all?) of his Learn the Hard Way material for free. So while I don't particularly care for his communication style I don't want to distract from the fact that he is also doing a lot of great work that genuinely helps people.
That said, Zed seems like a good guy at heart, I have seen him offer help to people out of nowhere both here on HN and on Twitter. Not to mention making most (all?) of his Learn the Hard Way material for free. So while I don't particularly care for his communication style I don't want to distract from the fact that he is also doing a lot of great work that genuinely helps people.