Comment by dougmccune

This has been a huge topic of conversation for my wife and I for the past few years. Our entire social circle is the exact target demographic: early thirties, highly educated, career focused, etc etc. We got married earlier than nearly all our friends (age 28). We've had two kids before most of our friends are married. Our friends are now closing in on 35 and now thinking about how to have a family is becoming a serious concern. We were a generation raised being told consistently that a woman should be career focused, pursue as much education as possible, and that you don't have to ever worry about finding a partner and having kids until you're ready. And now we have friends freezing eggs, considering how to start a family without a partner while they can still easily have kids, etc. It just feels like the pendulum has swung too far in terms of my generation's expectations (or maybe naiveté). You can't change biology. It will be interesting to see what kind of advice I give my daughter when she's an adult, but I'm hoping her generation has a bit more of a middle-ground approach to thinking about the balance between career and starting a family.