I, too, really love Elm, and have worked on some tooling for getting it running on the server. (Self promotion ahead). I wrote an NPM module for compiling and loading Elm[1], and also put together a more comprehensive project for scaffolding an Express application to communicate between Elm in the browser and Elm on the server, via ports (this is the first time I announce it anywhere, since I want to have some full examples before anything "official", but it is usable today).
1. https://www.npmjs.com/package/elm-loader
2. https://www.npmjs.com/package/elm-expressway