I don't think anyone outside certain religions[1] asserts that genders should not have equal opportunities. Could you link to such a person?
A better statement: The war is between the ideology that individual humans should have equal opportunities, and the ideology that certain groups should be statistically equally represented in all fields.
(Or sometimes it's all fields that result in "power", a poorly defined term.)
[1] Interestingly, those religions usually have more women than computing. I've never been to a church where women didn't outnumber men.
A better statement: The war is between the ideology that individual humans should have equal opportunities, and the ideology that certain groups should be statistically equally represented in all fields.
(Or sometimes it's all fields that result in "power", a poorly defined term.)
[1] Interestingly, those religions usually have more women than computing. I've never been to a church where women didn't outnumber men.