Hi OP, I used to work for a big game company (that had great culture -- opposite of what you described!). I'm now working on indie games. Although it's not as glamorous as the "games industry", you can find a day job or do contracting in a more sensible industry.
The gaming industry is infamous for having killer 80 hour work weeks & sexist culture.. if this is your first exposure, I recommend working in a different industry that will appreciate and respect you then making some games on the side with your friends.
The gaming industry is infamous for having killer 80 hour work weeks & sexist culture.. if this is your first exposure, I recommend working in a different industry that will appreciate and respect you then making some games on the side with your friends.