Ask HN: Do you have a girlfriend? Is it good to have one?

I seem to be of the age everyone else works on making out with other people. And, a girl told me today that I'm a "lot more of a nerd", and an unlikely to find a girl for the rest of my life.

That was quite hurting, but, I think programmers don't usually have girlfriends, do they ? I mean, do you ? Does it distract you from your work ?