Yes, this is my first job out of school. However I've been working here over a year and have done longer term internships before. I didn't have the same experience with this kind of friction.
He is more senior than me with respect to him working there a few more months and having a few more years experience -- at the same time I think I might have a different experience set. This makes me sound full of myself, but there have been a few occasions where I'll argue for something that I thought was common knowledge (like using an orm for crud objects or mocking external services for tests) and then when the vpe steps in he points out all the tradeoffs leans towards what I'm proposing. I think this only works because he trusts that the vpe has relevant experience.
I think it may be a respect / pride thing. I think I'm giving them mutual respect, but maybe I'm not and I'm oblivious.
Noted on not complaining, was hoping that wasn't the case.
He is more senior than me with respect to him working there a few more months and having a few more years experience -- at the same time I think I might have a different experience set. This makes me sound full of myself, but there have been a few occasions where I'll argue for something that I thought was common knowledge (like using an orm for crud objects or mocking external services for tests) and then when the vpe steps in he points out all the tradeoffs leans towards what I'm proposing. I think this only works because he trusts that the vpe has relevant experience.
I think it may be a respect / pride thing. I think I'm giving them mutual respect, but maybe I'm not and I'm oblivious.
Noted on not complaining, was hoping that wasn't the case.