Trust me, your phrasing wasn't even bad -- the problem is literally just how sensitive the actual subject is (as I'm sure you've noticed). It's worse than debating race/politics/economy/etc, we just have to tread lighter than walking on eggshells when bringing up these matters in our society unfortunately.
And as you can see, this thread itself has already been flagged from the front pages as a result...
And as you can see, this thread itself has already been flagged from the front pages as a result...