Not just that, but can be said this way: I I'm a guy and I approach a 100 women, and not a single one of them wants to get intimate with me.. Will I blame these 100 women and find flaws in them, or will I see it for what it is (cognitive dissonance) and ask myself what I'm lacking or
at least.
To sum it up: If stuff isn't working for you in a lot of industries, maybe there's a reason other than all those industries conspiring against you.
Can be said for hiring too, most guys I know complained about posting hundreds of CV's all over the place and finding no jobs, and I put only one CV, in the company I was interested in, and got a job offer (and all those guys said this company only hires you if you know someone).
The least one can do is not to take himself out of the responsibility equation, blaming others for all his misery.
Verbose answer. I don't blame the Illuminati or Area 51 for it. I can't say more in less. It's me :)
To sum it up: If stuff isn't working for you in a lot of industries, maybe there's a reason other than all those industries conspiring against you.
Can be said for hiring too, most guys I know complained about posting hundreds of CV's all over the place and finding no jobs, and I put only one CV, in the company I was interested in, and got a job offer (and all those guys said this company only hires you if you know someone).
The least one can do is not to take himself out of the responsibility equation, blaming others for all his misery.
Verbose answer. I don't blame the Illuminati or Area 51 for it. I can't say more in less. It's me :)