If you feel that this really did have value then I stand corrected. My personal experience is that venting like this has usually, if not always, had, on balance, negative effects. My experience is that venting feels better, but is counter-productive in the longer run.
I genuinely hope you are the exception. I genuinely hope that you find a way to make the situation better, and possibly retrieve it from the car crash it appears to be.
I genuinely hope you are the exception. I genuinely hope that you find a way to make the situation better, and possibly retrieve it from the car crash it appears to be.