Sorry to hear. I think it's admiring to see how you tried to build a product, but lack of selling/marketing always creates a bump in the road to a successful product.
We're currently using Slack. It supports both IRC and XMPP, has a webinterface and bouncers. It also gives you more detailed stats about the users, has integrations with other services and so on: https://slack.com/r/024fus8f-02566qu1 (shameless referral link.. k, thx, bye).
We're currently using Slack. It supports both IRC and XMPP, has a webinterface and bouncers. It also gives you more detailed stats about the users, has integrations with other services and so on: https://slack.com/r/024fus8f-02566qu1 (shameless referral link.. k, thx, bye).