First of all, this situation sucks because this person is not just defaming you, but dragging a loved one into his shitty antics. I really feel sorry for you guys! I think the best thing to do is write a short blog post explaining why someone would find shady things about you and your girlfriend. Don’t expose too many details, just a short neutral story like you’ve written here. When people ask you questions directly about your alleged pasts, refer to this blog post. For the rest of it, ignore the badmouthing. It will diminish fast enough once you don’t give this person a reason to continue.
Continue to be awesome, not only is this a much quicker way to rebuild your reputation (although I think you’re exaggerating how much people care about these kind of things), it’s also much, much more rewarding.
Remember: Karma’s a bitch. These people will get what they deserve in the end.
Continue to be awesome, not only is this a much quicker way to rebuild your reputation (although I think you’re exaggerating how much people care about these kind of things), it’s also much, much more rewarding.
Remember: Karma’s a bitch. These people will get what they deserve in the end.