I totally agree that it was a microaggression, and that microaggression is a real thing that isn't to be tolerated. I know that it's all part of a pervasively unwelcoming and alienating culture that I, as a straight white male, am also disturbed by. I get all of that.
I understand all of that and still think her reaction was out-of-scale.
I understand all of that and still think her reaction was out-of-scale.