>You're flaming someone who expressed the common sentiment: the OP's words makes him seem unpleasant to be around.
Incorrect.
I'm flaming them for saying that how pleasant the OP is to be around decides the commenter's ability to sympathize with the OP's predicament.
Nobody asked the commenter to be around the OP.
Quite literally, nobody asked that; and their opinion on that subject matter, however common the sentiment may be, is as relevant as discussing the physical attractiveness of a burn victim in an willful negligence case.
It would be one thing to say that the complaint has no merit, or that the outcome was inevitable given how much the environment changed, or even given OP's interactions with the community.
But saying "I can't sympathize with them because they're unpleasant" is another thing.
>If you meant something besides your own moral superiority, say so.
I hope I was clear enough here.
Note that I never said anything about myself here, so "my moral superiority" doesn't come into play.
But since you seem to want to bring my personality into the discussion, I'll say this about myself: I am autistic, and the words that I say express precisely what I mean.
Please take care to read them, and not look for hidden or implied meanings within.
Thank you in advance for understanding, or at least a bonafide effort to attain it.
Incorrect.
I'm flaming them for saying that how pleasant the OP is to be around decides the commenter's ability to sympathize with the OP's predicament.
Nobody asked the commenter to be around the OP.
Quite literally, nobody asked that; and their opinion on that subject matter, however common the sentiment may be, is as relevant as discussing the physical attractiveness of a burn victim in an willful negligence case.
It would be one thing to say that the complaint has no merit, or that the outcome was inevitable given how much the environment changed, or even given OP's interactions with the community.
But saying "I can't sympathize with them because they're unpleasant" is another thing.
>If you meant something besides your own moral superiority, say so.
I hope I was clear enough here.
Note that I never said anything about myself here, so "my moral superiority" doesn't come into play.
But since you seem to want to bring my personality into the discussion, I'll say this about myself: I am autistic, and the words that I say express precisely what I mean.
Please take care to read them, and not look for hidden or implied meanings within.
Thank you in advance for understanding, or at least a bonafide effort to attain it.