I think you’re overthinking it. Someone just passed away. For all accounts they seem to be a really amazing person with incredible character, something that is missing in many people. She donated a lot of her wealth throughout her life, always being one of the first to write a check for disaster recovery.
Let’s not pick apart “myths and folklore”, it does not matter at the end of the day.
Let’s not pick apart “myths and folklore”, it does not matter at the end of the day.