You mean people that have narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) or people that exhibit narcissistic traits?
You previously wrote “personality doesn't change, it's a stable pattern” implying personalities not limited to narcissists.
If we are talking about people with severe or clinically elevated narcissism - sure it’s much harder to change since it’s basically a mental illness; but there are also many cases where people suffering from NPD improved their condition.
Which means they can change.
It might not be worth to you personally to be the facilitator of that change and that is fair, no one said that.
But saying that peoples personalities cant change as a blanket statement is just objectively wrong
You previously wrote “personality doesn't change, it's a stable pattern” implying personalities not limited to narcissists.
If we are talking about people with severe or clinically elevated narcissism - sure it’s much harder to change since it’s basically a mental illness; but there are also many cases where people suffering from NPD improved their condition. Which means they can change.
It might not be worth to you personally to be the facilitator of that change and that is fair, no one said that.
But saying that peoples personalities cant change as a blanket statement is just objectively wrong