I don't really get why it's a free pass for you though. Some things should go without saying. Like being able to expose yourself in the most private area of your home for one of the more vulnerable moments you have. Why is "meta don't do this" such a non starter when it's this egregious?
You just shouldn't have to defend yourself to this level in a civilized country.
You just shouldn't have to defend yourself to this level in a civilized country.