Everyone who acts cruelly can say the same. Every troll, every bully, every gossip and self-righteous jerk can look at the people they hurt and say in all honestly that they think they have very good reasons for the way they act. Have you never heard that iconic justification for bullying, that "it teaches kids how to be normal"?
Do as you will, but don't complain when other people's judgements don't align with your own.
Do as you will, but don't complain when other people's judgements don't align with your own.