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Comment by maerF0x0

I've tried to do this in my community: Challenges faced.

- People unwilling to commit to an event > 7 days in advance

- People flaking even when they do

- Unreciprocated $100s of dollars spent is non sustainable, and lowkey feels kinda like buying others friendship

- People in urban places are living in smaller and smaller spaces. Though counterbalanced by many nicer apartment buildings have amenities spaces that help.

- mixing circles -- people are often isolating their friend groups into niches (pickelball friends, church friends, D&D friends...)

- And IMO the overarching issue in America that creates so many problems -- Everyone is so overworked that they don't have the energy/capactity to do good things: Exercise, and hosting parties being two examples.

parent maerF0x0 1 month ago

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