I'm not going to say you're victim-blaming, but I will say that there are degrees of difference between "looking both ways before crossing the street" and "hardening my website against unforeseen attacks by rogue AI agents."
AI black-hatting your website is not the same sort of foreseeable consequence that crossing the street without looking is.
AI black-hatting your website is not the same sort of foreseeable consequence that crossing the street without looking is.