This is what you get when you let your ORM loose on the database without understanding JOINs. Especially, the bit where something like 'book.author.name' that looks like a simple field dereference actually is a method call on an ORM proxy object (book), via python's __getattr__ or similar, that fires off a new query if the data you want is not loaded yet.
Some ORMs let you specify the extent of the data that you want, like Hibernate has its own Hibernate Query Language.
At some point you are better off just writing SQL yourself, though. Even without join problems, if you ask an ORM to get the person with user id 123 and all you want is their name, the ORM cannot know that unless to tell it, and so you end up with a 'SELECT *' type query.
Some ORMs let you specify the extent of the data that you want, like Hibernate has its own Hibernate Query Language.
At some point you are better off just writing SQL yourself, though. Even without join problems, if you ask an ORM to get the person with user id 123 and all you want is their name, the ORM cannot know that unless to tell it, and so you end up with a 'SELECT *' type query.