I've been planning a similarly "paranoid" (but apparently not that paranoid) Tailscale setup, for the same reasons.
Another concern I have is whether a compromise of Tailscale's own infra could let an attacker just add itself to my network. Apparently the "Tailnet Lock" feature mitigates this, but it is off by default. If I was an APT, compromising Tailscale would be priority number 1!
Another concern I have is whether a compromise of Tailscale's own infra could let an attacker just add itself to my network. Apparently the "Tailnet Lock" feature mitigates this, but it is off by default. If I was an APT, compromising Tailscale would be priority number 1!