my experience us sadly the opposite. when I'm recording gameplay with OBS with x11 and xfce I have roughly a 7-9ms frame render time and with Wayland and any desktop env it creeps up above 16ms, which means I can't get a solid 60fps.
in all other cases other than gaming and recording, Wayland has been a delight.
in all other cases other than gaming and recording, Wayland has been a delight.