Asking (begging?) people to communicate with you in a certain way because you think it is depriving you of your attention(time?) is _much_ more selfish because you are depriving people of the opportunity to control how they are perceived.
How and what people think of me is extremely important to me. I want to be perceived as someone who is effective _and_ pleasant to work with. Changing my voice to suit your inability to summarize and interpret the ideas being communicated is selfish and antisocial behavior.
You are not a being of pure logic. The way I say something to you _will_ effect your perception of me AND the topic at hand.
> Politeness has a place, but I beg you put clarity first.
Having conversations with little-to-no noise as possible has a place, but I beg you to consider that the person conversing with you has a baseline level of empathy and ego and is not a p-zombie.
Wanting to be seen a certain way is just as (if not more) important than the extremely minor distress you feel by having to read some extra words.
How and what people think of me is extremely important to me. I want to be perceived as someone who is effective _and_ pleasant to work with. Changing my voice to suit your inability to summarize and interpret the ideas being communicated is selfish and antisocial behavior.
You are not a being of pure logic. The way I say something to you _will_ effect your perception of me AND the topic at hand.
> Politeness has a place, but I beg you put clarity first.
Having conversations with little-to-no noise as possible has a place, but I beg you to consider that the person conversing with you has a baseline level of empathy and ego and is not a p-zombie.
Wanting to be seen a certain way is just as (if not more) important than the extremely minor distress you feel by having to read some extra words.