If you're looking for an alternative to Discord, check out Stoat (formerly Revolt). [1] Especially if you're an iOS dev with some free time as the iOS client could really use some love... [2]
(not affiliated with the project, just really want to see it succeed)
(not affiliated with the project, just really want to see it succeed)
[1] https://stoat.chat/ [2] https://github.com/stoatchat/for-ios