Author's problem is that he tries too hard, which is off putting.
The way to connect with people is to genuinely care about them and listen. The world is full of the oddest people who have normal relations because they simply care.
The author seems to show very little empathy or care towards other human beings, in fact the entirety of the article sounds like connecting is all about himself. Me, me and me. How people perceive me, how do they like me.
He never ever shows genuine interest into connection, in the the end comes off as manipulative.
The way to connect with people is to genuinely care about them and listen. The world is full of the oddest people who have normal relations because they simply care.
The author seems to show very little empathy or care towards other human beings, in fact the entirety of the article sounds like connecting is all about himself. Me, me and me. How people perceive me, how do they like me.
He never ever shows genuine interest into connection, in the the end comes off as manipulative.