You can quite easily draw a line that society does not get to force someone to live a tormented existence in spite of their prior declaration that they do not want to be tormented.
“It shouldn't be that way” is not an excuse to torture people through your moralizing indifference to the fact that it is that way.
“It shouldn't be that way” is not an excuse to torture people through your moralizing indifference to the fact that it is that way.